Always the society which we live in will affect the person's characteristics. So when we look at some countries we will find that the person's acting is usually approved in his or her society and the generation will be the same and so on. It is for sure that there are particular appropriate acts in particular places or regions and in the same time they are unusual in another society. The society is considered the first factor that affects the person characteristic, so it is important to find good places to our children to live in.
I think the best place for chilren to grow up is a city where there is a good society that does not have a big population, which has a lot of activities that take car of youth, and which have strong educationl system. At first , when we live in cities that have big populations that will cause pronlems and troubles because when it is like that there will be differences of tradition or even the daily life is not the same, so they will get into arguements with each other about particular matter in these cities. And when children go to the school they will exchange ideas or talk with each other and if there will be problems they mostly are big problems that make parents disappointed with their children.
The problems will come to their children quickly. All of a sudden your children are good or do not have problems, but when they are in cities that have a lot of activities they will tend to be more sociable and usually will have busy days which include entertinment in their lives. It looks like there are many benefits for example, they will be able to deal with people, will not be bored all the time and particular kinds of activites will change the person,s characteristics. If someone who has a regular life and does not have activity he has cares for, become an isolated person, he will find difficulty to deal with problems. When this person is used to living a boring life,then all of a sudden new events come to his life, he will get in trouble even if it is not big problem, but he will feel it is a different day. Children who don't have activites in their cities will likely feel hopless or they will not dare to do new things. People who live in such society will be excited to try new things,they will be more welcome to challenge and changes in their lives than the people who do not have activities.
They will find their way to success when they live such a life. I prefer when children live in cities that have strong educational systems; when people are educated and they take care of their children to get a good education;this is better than cities whose population doesn't seek education. In addition ;if the population lacks of education,then children will not usually get a good score in school. When the child goes to school and feels that his family or people around him don't pay attention to what he getshe will turn around to a bad way in school. Also the lack of education in particular family for example, will affect this family in their life and there will be problems like divorce,conflict and fighting every day. Then the child may find himself in big trouble, and the only solution to get rid of it is to do new dangerous experience.
Some people say the places which the children grow in do not usually affect the child's charectaristics or they say it just childhood; but then when the child get older he will create his personality. But i think the childhood is the most important period for the person to teach him. The person in childhood will be more able willing to learn things and to recognize the wrong and the right choices, if we notice most people tend to be what they were taught to be when they were in their childhood. For that parents take cate if their children under 18 years old more than after that. In additin, when someone used to watch his family steal or cheat and lie to others, they will think it is good or at least the others will forgive themif they do such things.
In conclusion, everybody wants to have good children, but we should find good places for them to go. The society comes after the family in the importance of its effect on children. It even sometimes has a bigger effect on children than parents. The world is changing quickly, so no wonder if the family lose control over their chilren and the child attends to be rebellious and does not look like is a part of his family and that may happen at an early age, when the community is big and there are different people around
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